Help I think i love 2 wedding dresses

So to start this off I put a deposit down on a dress and thought I loved it. About a week later I was looking at pictures and hated it so i took my mom and grandma and sister shopping versus going by myself. To say it was a disaster is a mild understatement. All of them had different options and were extremely picky I love both dresses my mom hates both grandma likes one and my sister likes the other and my whole friend group is split idk what to do. Dress 1: is big a goofy and I love how simple it is love the sleeves and all the swoops and doesn't need as much altering (grandma's pick) Dress 2: doesn't have the extra underskirt like I'd want but I think the dress itself is great and gives me structure (sisters pick)