Rec me fem!harry?

Hello! So, lately I have seen a lot of fem!harry being recced on the sub and I want to see what the hype is about...

Since I have never read fem!harry before (I have always shyed away from it) I want to see what the appeal is about reading fem!harry. So, any recs for a newborn? I don't want to read any smut, not at all! I don't care about the trope. Just something for a beginner who has always icked at the mention of female!harry. (I don't know why, it has always been an instant response 😭)

Also, why is harry the only one whose gender is changed the most? Why not Tom's? I personally think that if tom was genderbent she would be the definition of a girlboss!! Tom or thomalina or whatever name would strike down all the stereotypes about a girl not being good for anything except of a pretty housewife and a mother. She would rule the wizarding world with an iron fist!! Surely, a prompt worth writing if it's not already written?

Anyways, TIA:))!!