I think I (24M) dodged a bullet (23F)

Girl I met at a bar over 2 years ago. Matched on hinge about 3 weeks ago. She lives 2 hours away 90% of the time.

I think I am very reasonable but maybe not?

This was all because I went to bed without sending her anything because i go to bed around 8-9pm since i wake up for work at 4:30am.