Organizing drama

I am really tired of people's drama over dating, flirting, regrets, breakups, cheating ..whatever personal crap, blowing up organizing. In my city, we yet again have a group completely in turmoil over a leader hitting on girls or cheating or some garbage. Now it's all constant statements denouncing the guy and sanctioning his friends for not denouncing him. I hate this bullshit. It seems to happen over and over again. Everything personal is political and we can't seem to put that level of passion into actually doing the hard work. Is it unreasonable to not want to know about the personal drama of strangers? We better get past this crap if we want to get anything done.