How do unemployed ppl cope

Im talking about the ones who dont give a shit and LIKE being unemployed How do u cope throughout the day Dont u feel like a failure and if u do what do u tell yourself. Not saying u are but thats how i feel. I know some ppl who are care free and have so much fun. I wanna feel that while im looking for a new job. I feel like if i didnt have my brain it wouldn’t feel so bad Like maybe im making a big deal but yh.