Lonely widower

I'm 58 years old and my wife of 22 years passed away 2 and a half years ago from cancer. I have been abandoned by everyone we and I have known. We raised 5 daughter's, one each from previous marriages and 3 are ours. I very seldom hear from the girls but they have their own lives getting started. 2 are married, 3rd is getting married later this year. The youngest is in her first year of college and our other one just starting a new job. I miss my wife but I'm not wallowing in self pity. I've tried online dating with a couple of ladies at different times. Both were borderline alcoholics I think and couldn't take a picture without a filter, which is false advertising in my opinion. Lol I never hear from our friends at all. No "how are you doing", let's go out to dinner, nothing. I'm not a bar person anymore, that's for younger people. My life consists of going to work and coming home. Not sure what the answer is but it's lonely as hell right now. Thanks for letting me vent!