Do you think he's actually interested?

I've (35f) been seeing this guy (38m) for a couple months now. We are both recently divorced ( in the past year). We get together a couple times a week usually for coffee or dinner/drinks one night and the past couple weeks he's stayed over Friday nights at my home. We talk easily but he's very quiet usually only engaging in conversation if I bring up a topic. On our second date I asked if I was boring because he didn't have much to say and he said o definitely not he's just ok and happy in the quiet it doesn't bother him. Out in public he is not very affectionate even with hand holding but we have great sexual chemistry...when we get together is usually at my asking but this makes sense as I have kids and a busier schedule so I ask him often but he always travels to me. I know he has told his family about me but he doesn't seem interested in me meeting any friends. Am I overthinking things since it's just been 2 months? My ex husband was a love bomber and laid everything on thick so I feel like this is probably a normal pace but it's triggering some anxiety

Thanks for your insight!