Tubal Ligation or vasectomy?

I am a FTM, 35wks and heavily leaning towards getting my tubes tied after birth. I am 34 and my husband is 43. I have always known I have only wanted one child and my husband is 100% on board. At first when I mentioned it to my OB she was against it and wouldn’t send me any info or paperwork on it out of “fear that I would regret it.” Thankfully, I have rotating OBs and at my next appt the OB was much more relaxed and sent me everything I needed. It’s either me or him at this point and of course my husband doesn’t WANT to do it, but he will if I choose not to tie my tubes. And no, I don’t want to go on birth control for personal reasons. I’m curious if anyone my age has and went through with tubal ligation or did their partners just end up getting a vasectomy ?