I got hacked and now being threatened. Please help

Hey everyone, I’m dealing with a pretty scary situation and could really use some advice. (Also, I’m really sorry if this is the wrong subreddit—please let me know where I should post this if that’s the case!)

I’m a woman, and a little while ago, both my Facebook and Instagram accounts got hacked. I didn’t think too much of it at the time—I just changed my passwords and moved on.

But last week, I got this super creepy WhatsApp message from a random number in a country I don’t know anyone from. The message said something like: “I know you just got off work. I know where you live. Hope you’re enjoying your new apartment at (address).” Then they insulted me a bit and ended by saying they had a bunch of my private photos and texts.

At first, I thought they were bluffing and ignored it, even though it really freaked me out.

But it got worse. Over the week, I started getting more messages from other random international numbers, all claiming to be the same person. This time, they shared personal info about me—like phone numbers and addresses of my family, and even the name of the school where my nieces go. They said something like, “Maybe I’ll drop by and say hi to them.”

They also started sending me screenshots from their phone showing albums of my private photos, just to prove they really have them.

And now, they’ve actually started texting my family and friends, saying awful things about me. They’re trying to ruin my relationships and make me look really bad.

They’ve also been sending a lot of threats, saying they’ll share my private photos with everyone I know—family, coworkers, friends. They’re saying I’ve somehow “destroyed” them, but I have no idea who this person is or what they’re talking about.

The texts haven’t stopped, and I’m honestly struggling to keep it together. I can’t sleep, I can’t focus at work, I’m barely eating, and it’s starting to really mess with my head.

I reported it to the police, but they basically said there’s nothing they can do and suggested I change my number.

Does anyone know how I can figure out who this person is? Or how I can deal with this situation? I’m terrified they’ll actually leak my photos and texts, and I don’t know what to do.

Any help or advice would mean so much right now. Thanks so much for reading this!