Trouble Contemplating

Granted, I am human but I really have a hard time understanding the singularity and what it was.

If the singularity was the genesis for our universe and all we know, then exactly where and why was there a singularity. Where did it exist? Why did it exist?

I've been doing too much souls searching and refine to understand my place in this universe and this, this, is so frustrating that I cannot understand it.