Where to older Men and what to think about.

Hey everyone, a short explanation: I come from a rather small town, am 20 years old and still relatively inexperienced. There aren't really any bars or anything else in my area, so that doesn't really apply. I also have very little experience. But I would like to visit an older man for the weekend and have a bit of fun. 😊 i want it to be a bit further away from my hometown cuz i want to be myself there without the fear of beeing seen. Im not out of the closet yet..😶

My question now is where I can find trustworthy older guys who I don't necessarily have to worry about. Grindr?

Do you have any other tips about the whole thing? How do I contact them? What should i be careful of?

I'm open to questions here or in dms😄

With older guys i mean from 27 - 45.

Im from germany so sorry for typos