Can we talk about this king?

I understand that everyone is a “feminist” these days, but he did not deserve the attacks he got. We all know the very unfortunate situation he is in with his family. So why is his desire to have a child (in whatever manner he chooses) less valuable than a woman’s? I am a woman who has empathy for Ini - but they’ve attacked him about his feelings since the day he walked on the show. What do you guys think?