game crashing because of Wicked whims?

im trying to play wicked whims for the first time, but the game keeps crashing when i try to order the dom trait, and i cant seem to run a diagnostic with the addon i use that tells me what mods are broken. im fairly new to modding so idk where to even start on fixing this. im not even getting a error message, the entire game just crashes. my game is VERY modded, with around 1000 mods (probably more).