The Obviosu reason Solas Loves Inky

So after reading the AMA, I noticed some people questioning why Trick said there was an obvious reason Solas loves her. After subjecting my preteen to watching the romance scenes (Because Mom, Solas is the ugliest...pphhhffff kid), I think I have it.

Solas guesses in the 2nd scene on the Skyhold Balcony that Inky is a spirit of Wisdom. Guys....he loves Inky because he loves himself. Or at least the version of himself he wants to be/remembers.