New OKC users BEWARE! Don't take this site seriously, it can be very detrimental to your well being.

Be aware that no matter how your mindset is, being rejected many times sucks. The ratio of flakes is exponentially higher on dating sites.

Don't take it seriously. Relax. Don't expect anything out of it. be only your true self.

i got rejected so many times that it made me think something was wrong with me. i equated each person rejecting me as the same as if they rejected me in person which im sure a % wouldnt.

love you guys, dont waste too much time on here its fucking BAD FOR YOU