I caught my bf cheating

It's 3 am and I couldn't sleep after what I discovered an hour ago. Nagising ako Ng mga bandang 1 am to the sound of my cat meowing non stop. I woke up and saw my bf's phone beside him, still on, unlocked, I think he fell asleep while watching some videos. Anyway, I was about to close it when a message pops up with someone named Sarah (not a real name) So out of curiosity, I opened the message to see na ka chat nya Pala Yung girl na to for almost a month already. Nanginig ako Bigla. Nawala antok ko. I decided to go to the washroom and lock myself para ma picturan ko mga chats nila.

However, sobrang labo Ng kuha Mula sa phone ko gawa sa reflections Ng light Ng washroom so Ayun screenshot ko using my bf phone and sinend ko sa sarili ko and deleted all screenshots including sa bin pra di nya mahalata. Based sa messages nila, Plano Ng bf ko magpadala sa babae kasi birthday Ng babae sa 8 and what's worst is dineny nga existence ko, as every cheater would.

For context, me and my bf are both OFW, we are together for 3 years now, we met May 2022 and had been together ever since. Never ako nagduda about sa bf ko kasi he is loving and caring naman and always has time for me. Di rin kasi ako nosy na gf, di ako nangingialam Ng gamit nya. I mean, I want peace of mind so I trusted him fully and just let things happen, kung magloloko, Wala naman na din ako magagawa.

When I met my bf, he was unemployed, I supported him and was forced to do a live in set up because he has nothing at the time and dahil mahal ko nga, I happily obliged to a live in set up although I do not like the idea. Now, he has a good job and maybe that's why nambabae na, that's what I thought initially kaso binasa ko pa ibang chats and Meron na cya nakaka usap ibat ibang babae since 2022.Nagsinungaling pa cya na Bigla daw di na gumana Ang telegram nya na luma only for me to see na may chinachat cyang babae na nag ooffer Ng sx videos or sx chats or nud3 photos for cash (Yung alter ata Yan) He said na he found her from ofo based on his chat sa girl, ano po ba Yung ofo na app?

I am hurt and nanginginig ako habang binabasa ko mga chat nya sa ibang babae when I accidentally press Yung lock button so Hindi ko na ma open ulit Ang phone nya. I tried to act calmly pero Hanggang Ngayon nanginginig ako talaga. He was my first in everything, sising sisi ako that I trusted him. Sakit sa puso, di ako makatulog. Wala pa akong action plan for now, I am just acting normal and I will form some sort of plan.

Edit: March 8th. So the past 2 days, I somewhat confronted him to see if he confess. By "somewhat" means sinabi ko sa kanya na I dream about him cheating on me with someone named insert katunog Ng kabet's name here of course, he denied and said Hindi nya kasalanan na nanaginip ako Ng ganun. I threw a fit lol and he apologize and told me to stop having "tantrums" about my dream. He swore up and down na Wala cyang kabet so I challenged him to let me scan through his phone and he got very defensive and got mad , he said I am not allowed to touch his phone and I supposed to know that given 3 yrs na kami 🙄 . I'm still keeping up my act that I didn't know about him cheating and I continuously ask him to buy me things. I will dispense him as soon as I am done with my vacation, I already planned my exit. Will update more if something of note will happen. For now, I enjoy giving him a little bit of heart attacks every now and then 🙊