Why does everyone seem to hate purées?

Not looking to start a riot but why are people so against purées?? I’m a super anxious mom whose scared of choking and I have a really difficult time with “mom shaming” and feeling guilty. I take things personally, something I am working really hard on, and have felt so much guilt over not being able to breastfeed my baby so I’m trying to do the “right” thing when it comes to solids.

With that being said…I swore I would do baby led weaning because that’s what everyone does and I’ve gotten so many negative comments on purées but it scares the hell out of me to give my baby solid food. I also work a very demanding job so my nanny would be feeding her during the day and I just don’t feel comfortable with that right now. My baby has tried purées and seems to like them but am I doing her a disservice by not doing baby led weaning? I make them all myself and use glass containers/etc so she’s not getting any more heavy metals/micro plastics/etc than if I just served them to her. Is there something I’m missing that makes them bad and makes baby led weaning superior?