Left leaning non-jewish partner wants to be active in pro-palestinian activism
42M - I was born in the middle east (not Israel). Moved to Canada 10 years ago. Recently got engaged to someone (non-jewish). She never hid her left leaning stance. Lately I realized that she's very far left. At the very beginning of our relationship, I made it very clear that I can't be with an anti-zionist. She was okay with that. She recently told me that she has been wanting to actively participate in pro-palestinian activism by attending protests, inviting people on social media and being part of these circles. Using multiple examples, I told her that most of these events have anti-semitic organizers. In most events they chant genocidal chants. Given my background and all the racism I had to face, jihadi attacks I witnessed for many years before I moved to Canada, I told her that I find it very triggering. She says that she feels very limited and isn't sure she can live like this.
I find it very difficult to understand that as someone who doesn't have any skin in the game (not jewish or muslim, not middle eastern) she has such passion for this cause disregarding her partner's lived experiences. She's telling me that I am being very controlling and limiting. As a loving partner, I shouldn't be triggered or offended by her activism and opinions.
I really can't tell if it is a cultural thing but I would never do this anyone from a different culture. Regardless of my political stance, I would be on her side if I don't have skin in the game.
I wanted to ask if anyone else had similar experiences.