“I plan to have a baby”

Does anyone else get triggered by this phrase? Whenever anyone is like “oh yeah we plan to have a baby in x years”, or start acting like it’s just a fact of life that will happen for them, I can’t help but scream internally. You don’t. Fucking. KNOW. And it would be healthier for everyone if we didn’t all make it sound like an easy thing to do, like something you can schedule for. When it doesn’t happen it makes it all the more devastating.