Have noticed so something: Many people accuse writers who pair fem Harry opposite Tom or in some cases Draco of perpetuating heteronormativity, self-inserting etc. But Snarriet is not regarded with such negativity

The response to Snarriet comes across as more positive/neutral from slash shippers than say Harriet/Tom or Harriet/Draco. Many who think authors are self inserting when they pair female Harry with Tom/Draco, are neutral or even at times positive towards Snarriet.

Why's that?