Recommend me romances with a dominant woman

I'm so sick of YA romantasy pairings always being a small and unexperienced woman and a tall, dominearing man. For once I want to read about a softspoken guy getting really flustered by MC, or a tall woman shoving a short guy against the wall instead of the other way around, or just a woman taking charge because she knows what she wants. But also I don't want it to focus only on the woman's pleasure. I want both of them to have fun. Does such an unimaginable concept even exist?