Maintenance for 130k miles 2010 328i

Have had this car(2010 328i)for 100k miles and haven’t done anything to maintenance wise other then oil and fluid changes and spark plugs and coils. Oil changes every 5k with the longest one at 8500. It’s starting to leak oil but I think it’s my pcv or ccv because when I open the oil cap with engine runnin it sucks air in, so one of those valves is cooked. I’m replacing it and just wondering what else should I replace around this time or check to see what state it’s in. Heard the water pumps go out every 80k-100k miles, along with oil gasket. How true is this? My last car(2009 x drive 328i) hit 280k and i didn’t even need to replace the clutch. Had that one for 150k miles and drove it pretty aggressively for only needing to change spark plugs, coils, brakes and tires. Did I get lucky? Or are all e90s that reliable?