How to have an abundance mindset if Im experiencing scarcity?

Hey everyone,

I was just thinking of something and wanted advice.

Ive been feeling very insecure about my looks lately and have tried to have an abundace mindset and think that we can all be beautiful and that it doesnt have to be a competion.

But how am I supposed to think that when whenever Im doing anything with my very conventionally attractive friend, guys always approach her and ignore me? That doesnt feel like theres enough desire to go around for everyone.

So does anyone have a response to this or a way to make me shift my thought process?