Why don’t Christian men approach women anymore?

Hi! So I am very firm in my walk with God and I am content with my singleness but i still desire marriage so with that, I have a few questions !

1)Im black/33/f & it seem like men just don't approach anymore. I'm not cocky but I am aware that I'm attractive. So I'm wondering why they don't. I have been told I'm intimidating with the way I hold myself but does that mean I'm supposed to shrink myself (which I won't) to make myself approachable? I don't want to be the male in the equation so I won't approach either but do I need a sign on my head that says "ok to approach?"

2) I'm attracted to men in general so I don't discriminate. I like them all ! but I do really like Asian men! Where are they at? Christian Asian men, where do I find you & how do I make it known I'm interested?

3)everywhere I go, I see couples and families . I'm really not for online dating so what options does a grown woman have nowadays? I'm really lost out here in the single world.

Thank you kindly