Seeing posts about how many people havent moved even after years is just heartbreaking fr

Imagine your future partner giving their all to you, just for you to be obsessed with someone who isnt even in your life anymore and didn't deserve you. Would you want that? No right? So even if it's hard, accept what happened, grieve the loss, and try to move on. Doesn't happen in a single day, so one step at a time.

You'll not only be better yourself, but will become an awesome partner for someone who actually deserves you. (+ The other person doesnt deserve that either)

If not that, atleast don't force yourself to move on by fulfilling the void with someone else. Nobody wants to be compared with their partner's exes lol. + It's alos unhealthy