Have any of you gotten into a new relationship shorlty after a divorrce?

Hello. So I was with my ex wife for 9 years (16 to 25) we got divorced 9 months ago. That may seem like a while to some people, but it ended because I found out she cheated on me.

Anyways, I started dating a new girl a month ago. I thought I was ready. But now I feel like I'm not and need more time to myself. Have any of you after a divorce thought you were ready and ended up not being ready?

I don't want to hurt her feelings. It's only been a month together. But like I'm lost what to do... I mean I do like her, I just don't feel ready if that makes sense.

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thanks