So…how do you *actually* become more fuckable?

Got inspired to make this post when I saw a comment from a woman on a certain sub that said that most guys aren’t “fuckable.” I don’t want any platitudes - no “love yourself before anyone else can”, no “confidence is key”, no “personality is what really matters”, nothing like that. They might be true, definitely are important, sure, but I also want concrete, physical things I can do to make myself - an average to ugly guy - considered fuckable to women. Stuff where I can actually see improvement, I can actually see results from my actions.

I never learned how to style my hair or pick a good hairstyle. I never learned skincare. I never learned how to properly groom myself beyond shaving with a straight razor and shaving my unibrow with one. Overall, I never learned how to make myself attractive, while it seems like everyone else just figured it out at some point. So, fellas, how can I make myself look “fuckable?”

For what it’s worth, I’m not overweight, I’m skinny, I’m pale as snow, my teeth are a mess (but not dirty), a crooked nose, a weird smile, and I have a weird hairline.

Edit: this blew up far more than I wanted. Appreciate the specific, actionable advice. Lot of stuff I want to try out. I do want to clear some things up, though. Yes, I do know confidence it’s important, personality it’s important, all that. That’s just not what I want to work on right now. One of my biggest insecurities is my appearance, so if I fix that, I’ll naturally be more confident because I know I look better. It’s part of the process, and again, what I want to work on at the moment.