Ladies, share your experiences dating men who were in your league in terms of looks or less but later turned out to be red flags, perverts, or even abusive

A bit of context:

I often see, on various dating sub whenever a woman complains about a man’s bad behavior, the typical response is something along the lines of: "You might have chosen the tall, handsome guy, so of course, he turned out that way." Or "How are these men getting swipes they must be following rule 1&2 and its the woman fault for liking them so they can't complain if they turn out to be bad."

The narrative is always the same that handsome men are red flags, and if you choose an average-looking guy or short guy you won’t have any issues. Is it that simple?

As a woman, I've heard countless stories about seemingly regular, everyday men often under six feet tall on dating apps turned out to be abusers, molesters, perverts, or major red flags. Some even do a complete 180, starting off as someone who appears to want a long-term relationship and old-school romance, only to later reveal they’re just looking for hookups or asking for nudes. Like under 24 hours.

I keep asking men who blame women to provide actionable steps to identify perverts who craft elaborate schemes of niceness and fake promises, only to reveal their true nature later. The usual reply I get is: "Date short or average-looking guys."

But the reality is, men know they need to impress womam and many fake a persona at the beginning.

If you have the time and are open to sharing, please share your experiences of dating men who seemed in your league or below or were under six feet tall and later turned out to be just another pretentious "nice guy" or acted "nice" at first or love bommb only to cross boundaries or hurt you soon after.

P.S: larpers and men with less than 5 karma points dont post fake stories as a woman. I know to check post history and will expose you.