RA meds questions

hi - would love to get a opinion about RA meds:

i have been diagnosed with RA since 2019. i was originally on a low dose of plaquenel but the first time i got covid really messed with my body and my RA got worse. i started taking enbrel in 2023 and it did wonders for me, but it suppressed my immunity so much that i got covid 4 times in 2024. my doc and i are looking to try something else. she is really pushing rinvoq, but i am hesitant because of the side effects. i already struggle with my weight and acne. call me superficial, but i have a public facing job and you know appearances matter.

i am leaning towards methotrexate but my rheum is hesitant because i am a woman in my late 30’s and potentially looking to have a baby in 2026/2027. i know the risks but have plenty of friends who take the drug for their health issues and have had babies after not taking it for 4-6 months.

would love to get an opinion from this community, especially for doctors in rheumatology.

thanks in advance!