The sad reality, public perception
R is not popular. Entertainment, social media, friends and acquaintances either minimize it or say "Leave!"
I saw this today and it really made me sad:
"Extramarital affairs are like Pandora’s box. Before you know what’s inside, you always want to open it no matter what. When you enjoy the short-lived happiness, you find that all that’s left is trouble, and you start to regret it.
The outcome of this kind of relationship is one of three: one is to break up the original family and form a new one; the other is to argue, fight, go crazy, and then retreat, continuing to live with healed scars.
The third is to wander alone, unable to integrate into a new life, and unable to return to the past. It’s clear that none of these paths are easy to take.
So, for those who are married, whether you meet a white rose or a red rose, daydream, just think about it, don’t act on it, the cost is too high."