They treated her gross

No surprise Tiger Lily has a problematic view but everyone else was also gross. It doesn’t matter if you say to stop for condoms. It doesn’t matter if you wear lingerie. Hell it doesn’t matter if it gets to the point where he has the condom on. She can withdraw her consent at anytime. The whole cast was gross for this. And ignoring how much he lied and shit to her. She didn’t owe him any sexual activity.